so i’m in college now, i have trouble getting to know people and talking to people, it’s not like i have social anxiety it’s just i don’t know what to talk about, all the small talk stuff or asking them about stuff that i don’t genuinely care to know makes me feel fake and like somebody i’m not
i have like those different modes of personality that i call frequencies one is reserved towards people and very passive and introverted, the other is somewhat more extroverted and bubbly where i tend to play with people too much and it makes me feel like some annoying brat
therefore i prefer to stick to being polite respectful and more reserved
please give me some good advice