Posted in r/twoxsex, but figured I would here too.
21F. Basically my preferred form of masturbation is on my stomach with my clothes on sort of going in & curving up w my hand (hitting my g spot). I have no idea why this is so good (having multiple layers adds so much friction, I guess?), but it’s made oral / penetrative sex difficult. When he goes down on me, using even a minimal amount of tongue feels too hard and makes me feel kinda numb after a while. I think I’m insane bc I’ve only ever heard this being an amazing experience (ik not for everyone, but majority). Penetration— also nothing. I don’t mind it, it’s fine, and ik lots of women don’t get off from that alone either, but I can’t even touch my clit to help myself because touching myself bare doesn’t do anything. We’ve discussed me being touched w underwear on and I think that would help, but I don’t think that’s gonna fix anything long term and honestly, I don’t think it’s enough friction to get me off anyway. I’ve tried masturbating other ways, but I can only get close / orgasm if I’ve done this beforehand (lay down on stomach with clothes on, using hand to thrust up into myself hitting my g spot).
???
(ps: I’ve also used vibrators, they feel okay but can’t use for too long or it goes numb as well)