Im male and have been wondering if porn ruined me. Like with women that were more romantic and expected sex to be more romantic I had trouble even getting it hard. Literally the only reason I’m not a selfish lover is beacuse I’m turned on by my partner being turned on. Like during sex I feel like I’m with just a body and am turned on by thinking my partner thinks the same about me. My ex never spoke about anything sexual and expected sex to be like this sweet spontaneous thing when we never even slept together and I couldn’t get it up, I was extremely turned on by her body but her mentality ruined it for me. We then broke up because she thought I wasn’t atracted to her…