Why does my man goes soft after wearing condom ? He is not able to penetrate and not hard anymore. I am really not satisfied now.
When it starts he gets hard and everything looks fine.
But as soon as he goes to wear a condom and I get into position he goes soft again and says that he is not able to insert it in.
I need help if anyone has faced similar situation
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Condoms ruin everything. It’s like trying to suck a tit through a T-shirt.
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He might have a big dick and need larger condoms, if that’s not the problem try doing sexy things after he has the condom on, to get him hard.
Probably the condom restricting the blood flow to his penis get him a magnum for his magnum dong
This works for me 25M
When I am in position and I’m not fully hard, my partner jerks me off untill I am hard enough. Then I penetrate and we can get to work š
Some men are wayy turned off by condoms, talk about it and if thatās the case then Go get std tested (both of you) and drop the condom (use other birth control methods too)
My girlfriend and I donāt use protection because Iāve had a vasectomy and weāve both been tested. Every so often, we will have a threesome or play with another couple, and for the first time in a long time, I will put on a condom. Iāve experienced exactly what you were describing!
God bless my girlfriend! š I can only imagine what some of these women must be thinking when Iām looking at them and trying not to make them feel bad that itās just not working at the moment. She always rips the condo mouthing, goes to work with her mouth until itās hard again, she puts the condom back on me and says āOK baby, go!āš (we might not be the best couple to give advice)
The most important thing to know is that itās not your fault. The second most important thing is to communicate with him about how you feel while trying not to make him feel insecure or act defensive
Try some different solutions! Iāve read some great suggestions in the other comments about condom sizes. Try your best to make it a fun team effort to solve the riddle, rather than making it look like a problem, and he hast to figure out.
You donāt have to treat it that way. You donāt owe him anything but the truth, but I believe thatās the best way for PARTNERS to solve problems.
Because condoms suck
Try a super thin condom. They really increase sensation. Not as nice as raw but no babies afterwards.
Condoms just suck
Doesn’t like condoms and probably masturbates too much.
It’s probably because he needs constant stimulation to stay hard….this happens if someone watches a lot of porn and masturbates a lot.
Cuz condoms both cut of circulation and take away so much feelingš¤·š»āāļø
In my case the condoms small. Not length wise but girth wise. Try upgrading to a wider condom, it might help.