me (M18) and my gf of 2 months (F18) it was both our first times and failed miserably. lost enough erection when putting on a condom and couldn’t penetrate.i felt really embarassed. how do i prevent this from happening the next time?

2 comments
  1. There’s really no way other than to keep trying. Performance anxiety is common in men and the only way to get over it is with repeated attempts without getting stuck in your own head. The best way to help us if you start to panic that she helps calm you down and distract with sucking/ball playing etc

  2. Don’t worry it is ok and it happens sometimes. Try to keep calm and focus in other parts of sex. If you keep anxious it will be worse. Also, sex is more than penetration and can be fun without it too

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