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Different guys will have different answers. I’ve dated women who had attractive personalities and were fairly average looking, still had a great time. It’s easier to show physical attractiveness online though than having an attractive personality.
if i’m not physically attracted to the woman, 98% of the time I won’t even entertain the idea of a date.
being “nice” isn’t enough, when i’m not attracted.
now if the extreme connection ended up happening, that’d probably get me on a date with “her”, and i’d probably become attracted to her due to the connection.
I swipe left on the following:
Not attracted.
Call themselves “thic”
Mention sports.
Mention smoking or drinking.
Mention wanting to go out a lot to activities I don’t prefer.
Monogamy.
Mothers with kids at home.
I swipe left on profiles with the following attributes
* has or wants kids
* mentions faith, God or comes across as overly religious
* conservative, apolitical, moderate(gets a pass sometimes)
* mentions drinking frequently or all photos are of drinking
* wants casual or non-monogamous relationship
* I don’t find attractive
-bitter responses to writing prompts
-empty profiles
-pictures that all look 5+ years old
-default pic where I can’t clearly see the face
-generic, worn-out responses to prompts
-obnoxious heights, just list your height. decent people do not care
-profiles that are clearly never updated (are you the exact same? have you changed for better/worse?)
-multiple pics with other women
-multiple topless pics
I got off dating apps years ago, but, in general, I’d skip on profiles that seem like they don’t match my lifestyle.
I party, go to events, and workout. If someone seems like too much of a homebody or doesn’t workout or diet, we’d have a clash of lifestyles. I’ve been through this before and neither of us really enjoyed it.
> Would you got on a date with smo who seems nice but you don’t find particularly attractive?
No, I wouldn’t. Those girls are the types of girls I’m friends with; they’re nice, we get along, but I’m not attracted to them. It’s not that they’re objectively unattractive, they’re just not my type.
“Send me a message because ei can’t see likes”.
Its immediately telling us you’re going to expect to be chased and expect us to in all the effort.