I have a friend from uni who doesn’t really share anything with me. She’s a nice person and all but she doesn’t really talk much. Also , I recently realised she doesn’t eat properly and now I’m genuinely concerned. it feels like she has some traumatic experience involving food and I wanna help her out , but I have no idea how if she wouldn’t speak up. How do I start a convo to make her feel comfy enough to speak up without me mentioning it????
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You’re not supposed to talk about something that’s very personal right away. First make sure you warm up to her and she warms up to you, provided both of you are in the same gender/sex. Then when she’s comfortable enough let her start the topic, not you. Or you can ask people that she knows about how to help her, but not to her directly.