Hi I’m 17 and my gf 16 and we already have talked about having sex and we both said that we are ready for it
The thing is idk how to make it to the sex
Like we are oftenly making out, and each time, more and more sexual tension is building up, I started beck kissing (Wich she seems to enjoy very much according on how she breath when I’m doing this), being more and more tactile, she « grab » my head/hair when I’m doing neck kisses, I’ve already touch her ass of course but also her boobs with my hand inside her shirt (and she was braless bc we were about to sleep)
But here’s the point : even if some sexual tension is building up, idk how to make us to the point of having sex (not necessarily penetration maybe just oral), we’re both virgin but I’m the men. It’s her 1st relationship and me my 2nd and she is younger, so I may take the lead, but idk what to do for it not to be always
Slide my hand and ask if she is ok with it ? Ask her before ? I’m really lost and I really want to try it out all with her and please her, so please help me lmao
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You should definitely make sure to clearly ask if she wants to and make sure she says a 100% yes. If it’s her first time, you want to make sure she is comfortable and ready. The last thing you want to do is put pressure on her. Additionally, you need to be prepared. Bring a couple condoms. Not just one, bring at least 2. Shit happens and sometimes they break, so don’t let that ruin the experience.
I would suggest messing around before going to straight into sex. You’ll be way less nervous after doing other stuff (BJs, fingering, etc) a few times and getting use to each other’s bodies/each other in that type of situation. Messing around is a good next step and under-rated imo. Don’t skip it 🙂 wish you luck