I (20 m) was asked by my friend if I wanted to have a three-way with him and his fiancée. I’m not sure how I feel about it. They said it would be a tag team sort of situation, condoms, vagina only, no friendly fire or anything like that. They wanted to do it at my house and I still live with my parents so that would be a risk of getting caught. Should I just do it or should I back out? This would be my first time I am a virgin. Just worried I’ll regret it.
(P.S. is a three way a common sexual activity?)
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No, no and no! Nothing you’ve presented would end up well.
I would normally say yes, but not for your 1st time.
Oh hell no. Don’t sleep with your friends, and definitely don’t sleep with your friends as your first time having sex in a three-way. I’m 46. I’ve made some of these mistakes. It’s not a good idea, at all.
1st decide if its a friendship your willing to lose if things go south. If its something your interested in doing but have reservations, test your friends true desire to do this and ask if its a 1st for them too that maybe they want to try to have someone watch them have sex 1st. And that if its something all 3 of you would want to explore further then you could do a 3 some a 2nd time.
Hell no
Don’t lose your virginity in a threesome as I pretty much guarantee you’ll regret it.
Threesomes and group sex are a relatively common kink amongst couples though IDK what the percentage is. Most monogamous couples will not engage in it and the ones that do have to establish some pretty clear boundaries and have a good communication in order to pull it off. Finding someone to do it with is another issue altogether.
Nothing on this sub more consistently results in bad outcomes than amateur threeways by people who know each other, I’ve noticed
You’ll probably feel so weird and awkward having sex your first time in a threesome. My bet is you either finish in 10 seconds or you wont be able to get it up.
Best case situation it turns out great sexually you all have a blast. Then from there a few things could happen. Try again. Try alone with him or her. They argue over how good it was maybe they don’t love each other as much as they thought and want to continue to explore. It is mediocre and weird and the friendship is hurt. It’s bad hurt feelings maybe he tries kissing you or “handling you”. And probably 50 more things.