So I have an extremely hard time finishing during partnered sex, I have never been able to finish without my vibrator and have only done it with my fingers a small handful of times, and its very exhausting. I use a Satisfyer pro 2 and when I am alone I find it fairly easy to finish, however when Im with a partner using it, it takes sooo long for me to finish and also the orgasms are super weak compared to when I am alone. I don’t know why this is because I have felt very comfortable with my partners but still struggle to cum when they’re in the room. I also cant finish when using my vibrator whilst they are penetrating me. It really sucks to be honest and I don’t know why this is. Can any one help. I was also looking for recommendations on a new toy that might help me, was thinking a We-Vibe couples vibrator, but i’m still worried this wont be able to get me off. Thanks in advance
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So many women can’t come during sex, and I’m sure the anxiety or pressure you’re putting on yourself isn’t helping.
We have a wevibe, it’s fun, but I’m not sure it will be the ticket. I recommend it if you’re experienced, but as far as toys go, a wireless wands works wonders. It doesn’t have to be as precise as suction ones, and seems to have more comfy than the wevibe. Don’t be afraid to ride or be in doggy and take the situation in your hands. Focus on yourself, have fun!
My GF can’t cum from penetration alone. Her favorite position is laying down on her back while I stand. I have lots of stamina so I can go as long as she wants. Which is a long time because she has multiple orgasms, She use small rabbit on her clit while I fuck her. After about 10 minutes she starts to cum and she cums in waves. Small orgasms that run together and they keep going. Sometimes she’ll rub her clit, mostly because I love watching her finger herself and she’ll cum that way.