Okay here goes . After two years of a relationship my partner cheated on me and it was a bit rough she messed with my head but once I realised enough was enough . My friend was standing by me the whole time like she had my back throughout the breakup
The thing is we started dating shortly after and we supported eachother through hard times . Fast forward a year and I’m not feeling the same as I did things about us are glaringly incompatible she wants kids I don’t ect and the thing is Anna just doesn’t see this she thinks everything is match made in heaven
But then along came this other girl who I just casually was helping at work and she’s really interested in getting to know me and iv hit this awkward spot because I’m thinking about her but I don’t know much about her
And I feel bad so I don’t know what the right move is here guys I’m 36 and I’m looking to settle down to my life and find someone who likes what I like and I currently don’t have that but my current relationship was built off the back of a really terrible start
So I’m thinking a fresh start might be more healthy but I’m kind of lost here
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It sounds like you’re in a tough spot right now
It’s important to prioritize your own happiness and find someone who aligns with your values
Take your time to get to know the girl from work and see where things go
Trust your instincts and make the decision that feels right for you
Good luck!
well you already know what the right move is. it’s going to be hard, but you’ll both move on. don’t stay with her just to spare her feelings. you’re clearly not satisfied with your current relationship and there’s incompatibility (like wanting vs not wanting kids). best decision is to break up. good luck!
Surf’s up, brah! Ride the waves and see where they take you. The perfect swell will come along.