So i really dislike the way my boobs look when im on my back, i cant stand the thought of a guy looking at them when they look like that. Do you have any tips to make them stop just falling to the side and making it look like there is a huge gap between them?

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  4. Squeeze them together. Trust me, as a guy, we’re loving what we’re seeing if we’re doing the sex with you.

  5. Squeeze them together, throw some nipple play in. I have 40H so when me & my boyfriend do missionary they go towards the side, so I squeeze them together or hold them together on purpose & lick my own nipples… my boyfriend nutted immediately 😅

  6. They’d look lifeless if they were exactly the same as when you stand. Too much volume and cleavage while on your back is considered a poorly done boob job.

  7. If a guy cares about this you don’t want him on top of you, anyway. You have nothing to be concerned about.

  8. Whoever is with you loves it. You could always squeeze them together. I had an ex with somewhere between an F and G cup and I really enjoyed when she did that. Its worth noting that I actually used to love when she pulled them apart so she could lay flat in doggie and I could still see them from the sides. Come to think of it I loved anything that had to do with them in general. I think you’re overthinking it.

  9. Have your upper arms pushing them closer together and rest your hands on his biceps 💪🏼

  10. Squeeze them together or play with them. As a general rule, boobs look great to a man on top no matter what

  11. Girl listen I totally understand how you feel and I know some people may look at this and think you’re overreacting but I had the same insecurities. I promise you though guys really don’t give a shit and most are gonna find it so hot so please don’t worry♥️ if you want you can try to squeeze them together and see how that works out but overall just have fun

  12. It probably just is what it is. If they fall that’s just the way your built but your probably more worried about it than your guy. Guess we all have things about ourselves we wish were better

  13. My ex actually felt this way too. It never mattered to me though because I thought her breasts/body were beautiful regardless.

    I would say that odds are, whatever guy you’re sleeping with will feel that way about you.

  15. Aside from getting breast augmentation you can stop *overthinking* when having sex.

    Getting caught up with *how you are looking* or *what a guy is thinking* keeps you from *enjoying yourself!* Great sex is more about *feeling* than thinking.

    I can almost promise you that among the last things on a guy’s mind while he’s thrusting you is your boob placement. If it really bothers you there is always the *spooning position*/doggie style with him behind you.

    Best wishes!

  16. If they’re big enough to fall to the side then there’s a good chance they’re more fun to play with

  17. I don’t think you can do much to stop gravity. Guys like the “flowiness” of boobs anyway so I wouldn’t worry about it.

  19. Straight guy here.
    We just love your boobs. On your back, standing, on your side, upside down, bouncing, twirling, jingle tits. It don’t matter. It’s self confidence that’s the bigger turn on.

  20. I can’t really speak for most, but from my point of view as a male who is married to a woman with some bust. When she is on her back and we are having sex, I love the way her natural breasts jiggle! The way they fall to the sides and move with her natural movements is intoxicating to me! So, to be honest if your having sex with the right type of person that should not matter, and always remember that comfortable and safe is sexy so find the people who make you feel secure everyone deserves that! Thanks for sharing!

  21. The girl i hooked up with last week (who took my virginity), was squeezing them. I mean, her one hand was busy holding her boobs. I actually loved it when her boobs were looking that way and were jiggling. So, i think you don’t have to worry about yours as well. I don’t mind that gap, Infact before cumming for 30-40 seconds, i went a little harder and her boobs were going crazy, she lost control as her back was arching and blah blah. Tbh i LOVED watching her boobs bounce, go side to side…..

    In short, i believe it doesn’t matter..!!

  23. A lot of are saying to squeeze your arms together and while that does work, 10/10 you’re not gonna do that forever in your life. Boobs are gonna do that regardless during sex or simply you laying there and sleeping, unless one has very little to no volume in their breasts. No one can stop gravity. You gotta just accept and find peace that this is your body and the right person will love you for you, and the right person will also understand how the female body is!

  24. Trust me – the guy is just happy to be seeing and have unlimited access to a pair of titties, he doesn’t care if they slide to the side or if they are concave. He’s a man starting at tits – he’s won the lottery.

    If you’re really self conscious about them, just play with them. You can put them how you want them and he gets to watch you enjoying yourself while he’s inside of you (he’s a guy watching a girl touch boobs after all, won’t hear any complaints)

  25. Natural boobs are SUPPOSED to do that. I would find it weird if you layed down and they didn’t move at all….

  26. Yea… there’s nothing you can do about that, and men actually like it – I love watching my wife’s tits flop around during sex, it’s hot. This issue is more about your own body image issues than anything else. You gotta figure out how to get over those.

  27. I’ve never seen yours, but you’re wrong.

    It’s actually the best way to watch them in motion.

  29. By no stretch of imagination, do men think that a woman’s breasts look unattractive in any position. We’re hardwired to appreciate them.

    But if it makes you feel better, the only reasonable solution is to use your hands to press them together.

  30. Leave the bra on. Personally, Ive been with some women who did this, one of whom requested to keep it on after I asked her to remove it.

    It’s never bothered me one bit. Sometimes (often) a lil lingerie still on is sexy as well. Don’t think I’m alone in this

  31. Really need pics for assistance. One not laying on back and one on back. Just so that the information and advice can be accurate. 🙂

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