This guy..

Im talking to this guy online and have been for a while now, cant give a time estimate but its been at least 4 months idk. I want to meet him this month, hes gonna fly to me. But im second guessing everything because our only means of communication is calling really, and he is busy a lot as am i so its always hard to find a time. But something that has been making me really second guess everything is his phone will die in the middle of an important convo.. then instead of charging it a bit and calling me back he just goes to sleep. He never tells me hes gonna do that, but thats what he does. And i always get so worried and try thinking positive at first oh he sleeps because i made him comfortable oh he doesnt feel like he has to call me back because maybe he thinks i know he is asleep and not worried avout him or thinks i dont care that i was cut off mid sentence. I cant ever even finish said convo with him because one i forget two ill just talk about the same thing to afriend then i dont feel like i need to discuss it to him anymore but the thing that sucks is i want to tell him i want to get to know him. He says hes a man of action so ill see how much better he is in person i guess??? But idk.. i feel like calling me back or at least telling me ur going to sleep is a good action to take. It leaves me frustrated every time and ill cry for hours and freak out wondering sometimes the worse too what if he died idk i have anxieties over a lot of things and then the worrying cuts into my own time and suddenly its 1 am even tho the call ended at 8 pm… and i still havent done anything but worry. Is this something i want for the long run? Im scared im gonna get trapped in a bad relationship again. I dont wanna be hurt. I also wanna feel valued and like what i have to say matters. And also, always before i go to sleep finally and finally have calmed down he texts me “sorry i fell asleep” every time. Then he goes to work, then i cant talk to him for longer and then my work is generally in the afternoon where his is the morning.. and when im off ill maybe get 30 minutes to an hour of talking in til this happens. And repeat.. i have told him how i feel about this every single time. I find myself getting more and more frustrated, and like i need to make ultimatums almost. I told him i dont need to know what youre doing 24/7 when youre pooping where you are i just want to know if youre gonna go to sleep so i dont spend all night worrying just for you to message me in the morning, try talking to me in the morning when i should be sleeping.. etc