that she gets really turned on by really huge dicks and thinks about them a lot. not sure what to do and how to handle.

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  2. Get an extender for yourself and big dildos if you aren’t cool with bringing other ppl into your bedroom. Or fuck her while watching big dick porn. Get creative bro. Kinks are always a plus in my book.

  4. I don’t think you need to do anything. Let her enjoy her fantasies of big D’s. As long as she’s with you I’m sure you’re enough for her. If she says otherwise then you may need some big toys. If that’s not enough then I’m sure you can find a different girl that loves what you have.

  5. Ask what she considers a huge dick. If it’s 7″, that’s 99th percentile. She could expect to see a dick that big on 1 in 100 guys (which is more partners than almost all people will have in their lifetimes). If it’s 8″, that’s 99.99th percentile. She could expect to see a dick that big on 1 in 10,000 guys.

    The point I’m trying to make is that her fetish is, for all practical purposes, a fantasy. It’s not about a specific guy, and (assuming she’s grounded in reality) she’s not going to be disappointed by a normal-sized penis.

    So, if you’re willing to explore this fantasy with her, it will probably involve large dildos and penis sleeves. Get an idea of what size she thinks she’d enjoy and shop with her for something like that.

  7. Has she actually had one? They hurt some women. If she hasn’t then this is something she most likely has to work into.

    Try some sleeves and see what she thinks-they can be a lot of fun. If you’re super secure then buy a harness and strap her with a dildo she’s interested in. Joque makes a harness that works for men and it’s super comfortable.

  8. Why would she even tell you this to begin with??Especially if you don’t have a “huge” dick.

  11. There are options with toys, go for it if it doesn’t bother you. Understandable if it does.

  12. What is she trying to achieve by saying that? Does she want toys? What if a guy says he had big breast fetish to an average size chested woman?

  13. Let me guess: you don’t have one. Get ready to be cheated on or opening the relationship. Time to set sail, she’s about to climb on the carousel

  14. Everyone has their “thing” that they are into.

    Luckily, this is easily remedied via cock extenders and cock sleeves.

    Just be comfortable with experimenting and you are fine.

  16. lol, what did you expect? this can’t be news? this goes for all women, some say it out loud and some don’t

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