My boyfriend (M/25) told me (F/24) in casual conversation yesterday that he hits his friends dab pen. He thought he was getting sick so I asked why do you think that, and that’s when he told me “She” is sick so he probably shouldn’t have hit the pen.
He said he asked to hit it, she didn’t even offer. He knew she was sick and told me AFTER he was kissing me. Not cool.
Anyway I’m furious about it. Isn’t there some unspoken girl code or relationship code where you don’t smoke another females juul, weed pen, vape, etc?
Believe me I know it truthfully is insane BUT I’m still pissed and upset about it and he went OFF on me calling me crazy and psychotic when I told him it made me mad/upset.
TL;DR am I justified in being very mad/ upset that my boyfriend hits his female coworkers weed pen who he’s never mention ever before?
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No, there’s no “unspoken code”. If you want a rule in your relationship, set it.
It is inconsiderate as shit to do it when she’s sick though since he’s risking you getting sick too then.
tbhhhhhhh i don’t think he’d like it if you hit another man’s dab pen so…
I’d be upset I guess, but more so because chick was ill when he did it. But I know if my mister did that, it’s because he wanted a smokie, not because he was giving eyes and attention to another woman. Sounds like there’s an underlying issue with you guys that needs addressing. Does he have other behaviors that make you feel insecure?
It’s totally an unspoken code. So unspoken that only you have heard of it.
If it bothers you because of the health issue, talk to him.
If it is because “She” is female…I guess I don’t understand what the issue is.
>Isn’t there some unspoken girl code or relationship code where you don’t smoke another females juul, weed pen, vape, etc?
Uh what. Seriously. No. Was it stupid to share if she was ill, yes. But otherwise, come on
are you really using this many words to say youre upset that your boyfriend “kissed his friend by proxy”??? as in, like in middle school when you drink a water bottle after someone else and say “omg now its like we kissed”
You sound ridiculous
You are being ridiculous. Hitting someone’s vape ≠ cheating. If you hate your boyfriend this bad, just move on and spare him future pain
“Isn’t there some unspoken girl code or relationship code where you don’t smoke another females juul, weed pen, vape, etc?”
No, there isn’t. Lmao
>Isn’t there some unspoken girl code or relationship code where you don’t smoke another females juul, weed pen, vape, etc?
There is not