If u don’t wanna hear my rant just skip to end for question but I’m gonna yap a bit first.
I’m still relatively new to sex, so it could just be that, but I literally can not go more than maybe 2 minutes slow (with stops in between) of piv. I don’t usually use a condom, but even when I do there is little difference. On top of that I really don’t last that long just masturbating either so I doubt it’s from the excitement.
I’ve started edging and seen a little improvement but I have to do it like 2-3 times a day consistently for it to have even a little bit of a difference.
This is genuinely the worst insecurity of my whole life, I’m good at every other aspect in bed but this, I just want to fix it.
If there’s anybody out there that has gone from a genuine minute man (or worse) to something better, please share what you did…
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Have you already tried numbing gels or penis rings? Either or both are helpful for some men.
All I can say is concentrate on getting your girl off first. Then it won’t matter if too quick
First, get your girl off first, then it doesn’t matter how long you last.
Second, building stamina takes time. How long do you edge for in a session and how long have you been edging overall? You can either keep edging or look into the Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit.
My wife and I practiced edging on me and it helped tremendously by me “talking myself out of cumming”. She found out that she really enjoyed denying me of orgasm and she also likes being edged herself and we can keep each other in a high state of arousal for a long time.
Kiegel exercises for men to strengthen your pelvic floor.also try some Horny Goat Weed and Ginko Biloba. 5HTP helps with raising serotonin levels which is attributed to premature ejaculation. If all else fails, numbing spray from a sex store. Your welcome.
Best advice I’ve ever gotten was,
Focus on something else. Something on the wall, your favorite video game or tv show. Focus on something else. Not lasting long enough or being too sensitive is ONLY in your mind. Train your mind to not think about what’s happening and you’ll be able to fuck as long as you want.