So I (28f) just lost my virginity to my bf (29m) last night. It was really great and I enjoyed it a lot. Naturally I dont have much of any experience and noticed he kept falling out occasionally. Is that normal or is there something I need to do to help him being able to stay in? Any advice at all appreciated.
Edit: it was a mix of missionary/legs vertical against him and doggy style which I found to be really intense.
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Pretty normal. If you were riding him, maybe don’t bounce so high next time?
personally it has never happened to me (dude) but i wouldnt worry too much about whats normal v not in sex
with experience you get better at judging stroke distance. Same goes for him.
It happens, I wouldn’t be worried at all. You’ll get to know each other better when it comes to distance. Maybe you were so wet (very good thing) that it was easy for him to slide out.
Sex takes practice. It will work better in future sessions.
It is nothing you need to worry about and nothing you need to do.
It can happen if your rhythms aren’t quite synced up. Or maybe there’s another position that would work best for your body types or heights. You’ll figure it out with practice 😉
I think it’s just the newness . I mean think if you never drive a car … you wouldn’t be sure how close you were parked to another car , if you were in the parking space right , so your cautious . You’ll get in sync
It can happen when you two aren’t as experienced with other. When my spouses and I first had sex, we had the same thing happen a couple times. If you want specific advice, then I’d say to try and keep your rhythms in sync, don’t bounce so high (if it’s a posistion where you’re on top in), etc. A lot of it is just something you kinda gotta get a feel for.
How do you feel about not having has sex until 28?
Just depends on how big he is and if you’re clenching up during sex.but pretty normal and can happen position does mess with it too
Don’t worry about it at all, practice makes perfect.