For starters I’ve grown up with “dylan” for most of my life and we were always kinda just the our street duo of mischief, come yesterday we went a step further and today I avoided him cause i didn’t know how to deal with it.
He has always been the guy next door and now he’s stuck in my head, now I’m conflicted on what to do
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You had sex With a long time friend. You should speak about it With him.
And ask yourself if you liked it or not.
You need to talk. Things need clarifying. Was it just sex? Have you got feelings for each other. Maybe neither of you were fully aware of them, or wanted to admit them, because you’re friends. If that isn’t the case, yes, things might be awkward for a bit. There isn’t anyone who can solve this for you unfortunately
Depends what you want to do? Talk to him?
You should do it again
He’s still the guy next door. Now he’s just the guy next door you’ve had sex with. Nothing else about him changes.
Congratulations. Either you now have a great relationship based off of friendship, or you just ruined your friendship.
A conversation is in order. Awkward as it’ll be, you both owe it to each other.
No matter what you need to talk and clear the air to see what both of you want. Was this just a fuck or was it something that’s been bubbling for a while? Did you both enjoy it? Would you do it again? Don’t let this sit and don’t avoid him as he may feel abandoned as you stated you were good friends. Text him you want to think about things but get back to him
I read this post and I am completely confused about exactly what the problem is. Are you embarrassed? Do you think he is? Do you want more? What is it you are afraid will happen if you run into him? I’m so confused. And I’m even more confused by how people here can provide advice on such a confusing post.
I think you’ve fallen in love with him… it’s prettier obvious… ❤️❤️❤️
So take the next step… slowly… show him your interested in him, but more than just friends… be patient… it might be a shock the “girl next door” really likes him…
But, guaranteed…
If you didn’t already have feeling for you? He will now ❤️
Good luck… please keep us informed.
Thanks