I mean exactly with detail can you describe what you are doing physically to stop yourself from having an orgasm before you want to while having sex? I mean, when you start to feel an orgasm happening, what exactly do you do physically, what is the feeling, to stop yourself?

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  2. You reach the plateau where testicles draw tight and ready to increase pace to cum — but them withdraw stimulation or squeeze the glans of the penis — allows a reset — that said I enjoy driving to orgasm without cessation 😜

  4. It takes about 10 minutes for me to acclimate to all the sensation. I go slow and pull out right before I cum if I have too. Then once I get a rhythm going I can go a lot faster and last for a long time. It also helps ALOT if a woman will give me a good amount of foreplay before sex. Most women prefer receiving foreplay vs. giving it though.

  5. I find myself being able to last longer if focus on my wife and her pleasure if I start getting in my head I know the feeling and I’m ready to cum. But if I get to that point and I’m getting close I’ll pull out and use my hands or go down on her for a bit until I cool off.

  6. Definitely slow down and pull out. Pinch the area right below the head of your dick and it usually subsides. Then for good measure eat her out for a few minutes to give your body time to adjust before going back in.

  8. Controlling your breathing deep slow breaths through the nose feel your diaphragm filling with air and then you exhale should take anywhere from 5-10 seconds or more depending on your core strength and being completely relaxed so your not squeezing.

  13. Been doing kegels including reverse for about 2 months now and not even the most consistent with it. Gave up porn as well been about 3 months since I watched it, no masturbating only real sex and mannnn…I’m lasting basically forever rn my body gets tired or my girl gets tired of orgasming and that’s usually how it ends these days. Look into the app “Squeeze Time”.

  16. Do drugs… Lmao! JK, you’ll get better as you age buddy! Eventually, I hear you won’t even bust nuts any longer. Enjoy them my friend, don’t worry be snappy!

  17. I stop and kiss her extremely passionately as I flex my dick. Or I pull out and take deep breaths while we switch the position or lick the clit a little. I also take the time to start dirty talk.

  19. For starters, slow down the thrusts, to just a slight movement, I try to slightly disengage from the moment and just concentrate on kissing and caressing without thrusts. You don’t lose the passion, look in her eyes, talk dirty, tell her how awesome she feels so she’s still in the moment. If I’m still really close, I’d pull out, maybe go down on her, so she’s being stimulated and doesn’t feel rejected and not attractive etc.

  20. If things are going too well I envisage full garbage bags. If still going too well I imagine the juice seeping out of the bag. So far very successful. Didn’t really have a problem with early finish before but now can extend her pleasure for much longer.

  21. Make love and take your time. Foreplay, etc. Controlled. Fuck, and it goes fast. Or do both and have it both ways

  24. It’s like a kegal I think. Can’t discrbe it. It feels like it’s pinching it off. But before it gets that far, I slow down, switch to a less intense rhythm, or stop using my penis entirely and switch to mouth or fingers. I try to edge as much as I can though.

  25. I don’t have this ability so I take medication. Paroxetine, 5 mg a few hours before usually does the trick.

  26. Kegels. I’m not sure how much more to describe. I start feeling like it’s coming and I’ll do kegels.

    If I feel like I need to I’ll hold my base and basically pinch it off.

    I’ll think about something else than the situation, or I’ll over think the situation.

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