I had something with a girl for two months, we go out every weekend with friends and something always happened between us, ( we used to kissed, and spent time together) last weekend she said she was starting to feel something and we stayed in bed hugged talking until 5am, but the last Wednesday we had a party but she kissed another boy and spend the whole night with him after having told me many things the last weekend (She meet him that night and she kissed me that night too). Needless to say, I don’t want anything anymore because I got hurt and I guess she doesn’t either. The thing is that she’s in the college with me and we are in the same circle of friends. I see her everyday at college and I don’t really know how to act in front of her. And, should I stay going to the meetings with those friends? Should I ignore her? I didn’t know I was going to feel this way. It’s been 5 years since I don’t feel like this, I really like her but she’s not good for me. I wanna forget her. I’m drowning
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She hasn’t done anything wrong.
Neither of you are wrong. It’s hard to make strong feelings like those go away, and jealously and disappointedly are natural reactions. But also if she doesn’t feel that way anymore, she isn’t wrong either.
I’d say keep hanging out with the friends, but maybe not do 1-1 with her. And if this isn’t your main group of friends, take a small step back. If you hungout with them twice a week, then do once. If this is your main group of friends, you don’t need to loose them too.
Stay “just friends” if you want. But it if hurts you then distance yourself for a while. Easier said than done but it’s the only way.