What would you think of a woman who only gave you her real name and age after 3-6 months of dating, after she gave you a fake name, age, and address at the beginning because she was hiding the current criminal charges against her?

46 comments

1. Depends on the details lol

   Anything from “badass” to “yeah, no, bye” is possible

2. Do we have a good relationship with a lot of attraction to each other? Because that’s what matters here.

3. Yes

4. What would you do if a guy did that to you?

5. That would, without a doubt, be a full bail out for me. There’s no way I’d trust her ever again. The lie, in my mind, would (probably) be less forgivable than the crime.

6. Hahahahaha

7. She sounds great and mysterious. You should build a life together.

   As an aside, I have this bag of magic beans I think you would love…

8. Run because I don’t want to catch and accessory charge

9. Break trust at a fundamental level right off the bat?! Leave the instant she’s done saying that. What the actual fuck.

10. Run!!!

11. Obviously its a deal breaker
    Its a relationship built upon lies.

12. This can’t be a serious post lmao

13. Wow, what a winner!

    Crime & lies right off the bat. Depending on the crime, the lies may well be the worst part of this!

14. Lulz

15. Yes, for me that’s a deal-breaker.

    Huge red flag, MASSIVE in fact with a big fucking red flashing light on it.

16. Nah, not for me. I’d leave and never look back.

    I’m also not googling my partners. I understand women do that to try to keep safe, but I’m not that worried for myself.

    I can’t imagine what crime (besides sex crimes and maybe stalking) that I couldn’t be sympathetic about. But providing a false identity? That’s whack.

17. Mmm, that’s a tough one. On one hand, she did just demonstrate that she has no respect for the law, depending on her charges she has no respect for herself or her community, and she has no respect for you.

    On the other hand, the vagina. Vagina is pretty great and all but I’d maybe count these past few months as a win and leave the roulette table while you’re still up.

18. Is that ass fat tho…?

    ​

    Bro come on, you know she aint worth the trouble.

19. Deal breaker that’s for sure. If you can lie now you’ll lie later. You can avoid it or say you are uncomfortable with sharing but lying isn’t the way to go.

20. Yeah. Non starter.

21. In what strange universe is this NOT actually a deal breaker?! :O

22. I’d be more inclined to give her a shot if she was up front and honest about everything. If I found out she lied from the beginning, I’d spend the rest of the relationship wondering what else she’s lied about and what she might lie about in the future. There’d be absolutely no trust, and I can’t have a relationship based on that.

23. make her a side chick but only tell her after 3-6 months

    jk i don’t date crazy

24. Are you pilot testing the plot for your new book?

25. The reddest of red flags.

    Being honest but not disclosing everything in the early stages of dating is fine, but outright lies like that, no thanks. It would be fine to disclose after a short period of dating that you’ve got some upcoming charges or criminal record or whatever. That’s not something you need to get out there on a first date.

    But the whole fake name and fake age thing just screams ‘crazy’ and ‘drama’.

26. Most women lie about their age, so it isn’t a big deal. Her name and having a criminal record is a bigger concern though.

27. yup. run. full on SPRINT.

28. Run forest! Run!!!

29. depends on how attractive she is /s

30. Yikes

31. Bruh….

32. It doesn’t matter what the crime is. Trust is literally the foundation for any relationship. If you can’t trust someone there is absolutely no way you can have any sort of relationship with them.

    Lying from the start will absolutely never work out for you. If you really like a guy tell him the truth right away. If he’s going to forgive you for it he will then. If you lie about it no one will ever forgive for lying.

33. What a stupid question. I’d think she’s dishonest and a loon. I wouldn’t date either so yes a deal breaker.

34. This is why background checks are a really good idea.

35. My friend, that is a red flag so big, the Soviets want to stick it on the Reichstag. Get out and runnnnnn.

36. Huge redflag

37. She likes you so much that she lied about huge aspects about herself, but she’s really embarrassed for lying for half a year… so that’s ok right? How is this serious? Are you supposed to forgive a stranger? Because she’s not who she said she was. If she lived in her lies for that long I would feel catfished.

38. Ya pretty much I’d break up with her because that’s kind of a crazy thing to do. Maybe if she had come clean the very first day I’d be more forgiving. 3 to 6 months of dating? No thank you, those criminal charges must be pretty serious to want to hide and it would make me think she’s gonna murder me in my sleep or something.

39. Check to see if there’s a reward

40. Yo. How are you even asking this?

41. I was like “Okay, not sharing your real address kinda makes sense…” but then you got to the criminal charges part, lol. No, definitely cut and run.

42. Oh yeah, that’s a deal breaker

43. >Is this really a deal breaker??

    Yes. Liars are scum. Red Flag. Im OUT

44. Yes

45. Just stop, troll. Your post history speaks for itself. Pathetic, just pathetic.

46. This is an acceptable reason to ghost someone. Some of this would be workable (not ok, but can be worked through if you want) on their own. But criminal charges AND months of lying to you? That’s a fucking time bomb.