I (m28) never had a relationship before and always asked myself what I did wrong or what in general was wrong with me.
Thanks to a two month stay in a psychosomatic clinic I could work a little bit on my past and now I think, it all leads probably to the fact that I never talked about feelings or emotions. At some point I must have forgot/mislearned how to speak about it. The two times I committed my feelings to someone was at 16 and 26 and both times they said, I’m clinging. In Germany we say ‚Klammern‘ so I don’t know if this phrase/saying exists in english. So the only thing I learned through those experiences is to just be silent and don’t talk about feelings at all.
So my question is when do you think is the right time to talk about having feelings for someone?