i know a lot of boys lie about this for more comfort but hes not lying.
we’ve been together for four years. to begin with we did with no protection due to me having the implant. i am constantly scared of being pregnant due to irrational fear so i asked to start using condoms as a double protection.
the reason we didn’t to begin with is because they don’t fit him. we got extra large, they fit over his head and they can’t roll down. they roll up again and he’s in a lot of pain because it’s obviously very tight and squeezing on him. it looks really uncomfortable.
is there another size up to use? i’ve had a look around, but extra large seems to be the end of what’s easily available.
are we doing something wrong? is it always like that? we are each others firsts so he’s never needed to use one before now.
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Unless he is like insanly large, there are codoms for all sizes available. Depending on the location you are in the world it might be easier/harder to find.
You might have him buy the My.Size XXL, Magnum XL, or Atlas Extra Large brand of condoms.
They may not roll all the way down to the base but should cover 8-9 inches in length.
There is also one called MyONE® Custom Fit™ offers condom sizes snugger and larger than any other brand. “Customize your width & length for max pleasure, comfort and confidence.”
Many condom manufacturers have a size guide that you can access online.
Best wishes!
Magnum XL, Durex XXL, Titan, Unique Plus /XXL for off the shelf stuff.
MySize and [MyONE](https://www.myonecondoms.com/pages/our-products) (my favorite) for custom sizing.
Could you try spermicidal lube instead?
It’s not the size up. Try a different brand. I’m average size but I’m above normal wide and try stretching them first
Female condoms are bigger too.
As to getting regular condoms on. Perhaps lubricate his penis (with water based lube) before putting one on him.
Hey, so brands that name their products Large or XL usually do that because its a marketing trick. You have to filter based on nominal width.
Most condom sizes go from 52-57mm. While durex XL power is 57mm so still similar to the standard ones.
I advise to get a 62-64mm size condom and test that out first. After that your only real option is to get 69mm.
I know what you’re talking about, husband is extremely girthy and regular condoms were tough to get over the tip and cut into his shaft. Even the big ones at that time dug into him, so literally why I just decided screw this and we stopped trying because sex wasn’t possible due to him hurting/going soft because of it.
I can think now they offer bigger sizes vs tge old “something” XL we tried, so good luck, but he’s being honest if he’s a big boy