I think he might be on the spectrum but my bf will text me and just tell me what he did that day without asking what I did. We lived together for a month and now he’s moving back in with his parents but he never once thought to ask me where I’ll be living. I think he assumes I’ll be living with my parents even though I told him a million times I would never do that. I want to dump him and say something in a text like “I find it bizarre that you haven’t asked me where I’m going to be living, either you’re too absorbed with what’s going on with you or you don’t care but either way it’s weird” but I don’t want to be mean, how should I phrase it?
Tl;dr bf might be aspy and never asks me about myself
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sorry, he either sucks or has issues. he has to live with that forever and you’re getting out. tell him your disappointed he didn’t ask and then tell him where you’ll be living.
I had similar experience with ex. Signs of narcisist but I am probably not objective
My partner has ADHD (the inattentive hyperactive type) And has no issues talking about himself for “quite a long period of time” until he realizes I had important stuff going on that day too.
After three years of a relationship with him I am finally losing my rose tinted glasses and am getting quite sick of it.
I have ADHD & ASD and I am way too mindful of other people’s feelings. I can ramble sometimes but if I know someone has something going on and it’s important I put them first.
Your boyfriend might have ASD or ADHD…. But he isn’t an attactive partner when it comes to social skills or emotional support.
You both are weird. You can’t talk about yourself unless asked and he can’t stop talking about himself unless asked.
Have you ever voiced to him that it’s hurtful that he doesn’t seem to care?