. My husband and I have a great sex life but I’m discovering I love fantazing about him cheating. I’m jealous a person so this would never fly as adding more people. Plus he would never cheat.
He wants to help me with this but he says it makes him feel cringy and dishonest. We have set up a fake number for us to text as “the mistress” he is getting more into but what can I do to help?
We are very secure in our relationship and been married 20 years so this won’t turn into a slippery slope.
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Act like a gf or casual partner that is really into him. Something like that that would be very different from how his wife would act.
I have an ex who would send me nudes and dirty videos of herself while I was in meetings at work. That made it very tough to do anything during the meeting but think of her.
Moreover, something that is almost irresistible to guys if feeling like a woman *needs* you. So much that she is all over you and craving your touch. You could try making him feel like you can’t handle him not using you.
If you’re going to do it, then you need a completely different personality and demeanor from your normal self. Buy a good wig to look different and if you’re kind of reserved then your alter ego needs to be more revealing and bold. Gotta do things out of the ordinary. Whatever you haven’t done or won’t do “she” will or is willing to.