i (25f) matched with this super great guy (25m) just over a week ago. we clicked instantly and started texting, had a first date planned a couple days later. i went back to his place but we only made out. we had our second date on friday, we cooked and played board games. he lives pretty far from me so i spent the night and we did end up having sex.
the next day we were hanging out in his living room watching movies and kissing in between when he said he really likes me and wants to be exclusive. he even deleted his apps. i asked him later if that meant we were calling each other boyfriend/girlfriend i have a really really good feeling about him, he does and is everything i want without me having to ask, and i’d love to.
i did tell him i’ve never been in a relationship so i am scared of jumping in, and i’d like to keep it between us for now, i think i’ll be ready to make it public in a month or two. i’m just worried we’re moving too fast???
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It might be too fast rn, but you can always slow it down later. My tip for people who go too fast is just don’t let it all distract you from getting to know them and scrutinize such as the good and of course the bad. No matter who it is, nobody can say they know everything about someone in a week. This isn’t just about their autobiography, but their usual behaviors, strengths/weaknesses, etc. If anyone says they know everything about someone in a week, then that is BS. What that actually means is that you “feel” like you know someone rather than you “actually” know someone well. You can start/stop a relationship whenever you want and nobody can stop you. Just don’t forget that you still have a lot more work left to do to see what this guy is like though. Cause if you do start a relationship, you shouldn’t assume you know this guy. You are jumping into one with someone you still need more time to get to know way beyond just a week.