Like I always have to wait for the other person to make the first move
And if I make the first move, I spend the rest of the relationship beating myself up like I’m so lame they probably don’t even like me they just were forced to by me
This is in friendships too like I rarely suggest we should go out for dinner 1 on 1 I only feel comfortable doing it in a group setting in case that 1 person thinks I like them too much
Does anyone else feel like this?
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It honestly sounds like you just don’t give yourself enough credit for what you bring to table.
Consider just working on yourself and recognizing all the good in you and all your attributes. I can struggle with this too, but once I learned that I have a great quality’s and bring things to the table it helps you have confidence and you may find yourself taking some bolder steps.