My SO has been under the weather. Today I gave him a BJ. I stayed in the southern hemisphere for a good 5-10 minutes after. Hugging, kissing, etc. I started licking his penis again very gently and asked if it was ok. He said absolutely. I got him hard again and started giving him another BJ. I was very much enjoying myself. He was very hard. He brought my head up and said to take a breather. I went back and he was 1/2 there. It continued but he stopped me again. I didn’t get to finish him for the 2nd time. For what it’s worth, it was about 10-20 min after his first orgasm, generally it takes him much longer to finish the 2nd time around, and he did have to leave for an appt in about 30 minutes from when this happened. I feel kind of rejected and silly for continuing. What should I do?
21 comments
Guys can get pretty sensitive with all that attention. That might have been the issue. That’s pure speculation on my part. Doesn’t sound like you did anything wrong. He is lucky to have a GF willing to do it.
Most of us get quite…delicate after blowing. To the point where a gentler and calmer technique is preferred.
But sometimes it just ain’t awesome and great to get more of it, even though the theoretical idea of it scores 27 out of a max of 5 points.
Don’t feel rejected. He enjoyed it. Encouraged it. Then decided that this wasn’t the time and the place for it.
Ask him about it sometime. “do you want me to treat you more?”
Good effort. Not necessarily received well, but still a good effort.
Easier said than done: don’t take it personally. I guarantee he enjoyed the time and effort you gave. Like the other poster said, after climax we can be very sensitive, too sensitive. Also, after climax, it can be difficult to climax again a short time later.
Men have a refractory period. We can’t ejaculate right after already ejaculating.
Maybe him being under the weather is impacting his ability. I wouldn’t take it personally.
Dam what a lucky guy. I don’t think he ment any offense he prob felt bad he didn’t get you off after you did it for him.
It gets very sensitive and needs to be left alone. You sound like the perfect woman, so try again tomorrow!
My husband prefers the soft, gentle loving after he’s finished. He normally gets kisses, snuggles and ball rubs, which are his favorite
You did nothing wrong. If you’re willing go the 2nd round and you know what it will take, you are a champion. In my younger days, I loved going for 2 or 3.
There’s no such thing as too much.
I don’t think you should feel rejected or silly. Yeah, if it’s his second time, it’s going to take longer for him to get off, and he could well be sensitive. He could also have been in his head a bit, thinking more about getting ready for his appointment.
Just see what happens next time you two are ready to initiate and both of you are in a good place mentally and physically. If it’s all good, just chalk things up to what I mentioned in the previous paragraph.
You did say he was under the weather and had an appt to get to right?
What is SO?
Tip of the hat 🎩 But if it were me and I had two that close together with an appointment coming up I probably wouldn’t have been able to finish either.
Just, go back for more later lol I’m sure it was fine!
You overthink it. Mens are not all able to cum few Times on a row. It may be exhausting. Just give him Time to recover lol.
You said he was under the weather. Maybe that was affecting things. Don’t overthink it.
Don’t feel silly or get discouraged. Keep doing it cause to be real, a women going for 20 minutes without a single complaint is rare. Not to mention you took “it” to the head and keep going after for a 2nd orgasm. He probably had a lot of sensation going on after the 1st orgasm and just didn’t wanna give you a complex about it
You did just right, I’m sure he thoroughly enjoyed it. It takes time to recharge, it seems like if he didn’t have to leave he would have let you finish him. He’s fortunate to have such a sweet girl like you.
Just listen to him and take a break. LOL. He might get hard again but that doesn’t mean he wants more and more and more. His dick could be extra sensitive after the first one and maybe he was just no longer in the mood.
If he insisted on staying “downtown” on you when you didn’t want it any more, you’d probably not love it. It’s nothing personal. Just………..stop already.
Proving again the male body is infinitely weirder than the female body.