When me (f) and boyfriend have sex I can’t finish at all. It doesn’t have that feeling. I can finish when I’m alone or when I get head but when I properly have sex it doesn’t feel the same and I can’t finish. Am I normal or can some people just not finish inside?

4 comments

  1. I’m sorry but this is very normal for women, sex and clitoral stimulation are two completely different feelings. Have you tried stimulating your clit during sex?

  2. A huge percentage of women can’t climax from PiV alone. Clitoral stimulation can help, but it is in no way a guarantee. Getting you off via manual or oral stimulation first is a good way everyone is happy, but some women can become overstimulated after the O, so you may need a break after before going to PiV. On the other hand it may help getting you off first, as you are pre stimulated, so a second O with PiV may become possible. You can also use a suction vibrator or something else on your clit during intercourse to increase the your enjoyment. The most important thing should however be to have fun with things, try things out and don’t get frustrated.

  3. Me or my partner will almost always masturbate her clitoris during penetration for her to reach orgasm. It is unusual for her to experience an orgasm during sex without manual stimulation with our hands or a toy. Extra stimulation doesn’t mean your partner is insufficient, and it’s not a crutch or cheating. Have fun and good luck:-)

  4. Most women cannot finish ‘inside.’ If you can climax from oral or manual stim or both, you are ahead of the game.
    Think of intercourse as the grand finale, not the main event. You are like most women in the world.

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