I moved states 6 months ago and I don’t have one single person to hang out with. I didn’t have any friends back home either but I was just beginning to become friends with one of my coworkers before I moved.
Anyways I went clothes shopping and spoke briefly to this girl about her outfit then decided I was going to ask for her snap so we could hang out as friends.
I awkwardly waited in the store for awhile until as she was leaving I asked her. She was very cool and told me she’d show me around.
We didn’t message at all for like a week but she hit me up saying we should hang out!
I then sort of stalled saying I’m sick and cracking a joke about needing to call a priest before hanging out. In reality I just didn’t know how to continue the conversation and wanted to ask for some advice first.
What do people do to hang out for the first time? We’re both girls in our early 20s. I’m truly at a loss never once in my life have I tried to make a friend this way.
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You should definitely ask her to hang out when you “are feeling better”.
As for what to do, you could ask her if she wants to go see a movie and get something to eat or just go to a cafe and drink some coffee/tea. Something that lets you guys get to know each other and hang out. (It’s a bonus if an activity is involved which you can bond over).
She is clearly expressing interest in becoming friends so don’t overthink it. What do you like to do? Maybe you can bring her with you.