Long story short, met this girl at an event back in the summer and met up and hung out together shortly after. Day after i texted her asking if she’d be open to being friends going forward, she said she’d like to be as well. If i am being completely honest, i cant even remember the feeling of why I decided to just be friends with her.. I feel like maybe I felt too nervous/awkward at the beginning
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This may not have been the best decision..
Well she and I are in the same class and we end up sitting next to each other every other day. We talk and stuff after class.
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Recently, last few weeks to month, ive asked her to study twice and both times she said sure and we met up. However, most recent time we met up to “study” we both barely got any studying done.
Aside from this, she and I keep bumping into each other on campus lmao
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Now i am at the point where i am asking myself if i am catching/have my feelings evolve for her. I don’t know what to do at all right now or if i should ask/tell her about this and like go on dates to see if we like each other romantically..? If so i dont know where to even begin or how to bring this up.
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Unfortunately I am in a weird situation that i put myself in…
Suggestions/advice?
TLDR: met this girl awhile ago, friend zoned her but now my feelings are starting to evolve more as friends for her…
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Maybe hang out without the intent to study? If you’re gonna confess do it during a short hangout outside of either person’s home. A park, a coffee shop, somewhere quiet and peaceful but not personal. That way if she doesn’t feel the same, she doesn’t feel trapped, nor is it some long event that is now awkward after a rejection.
“How would you feel about going out on a date?”
Get to know her better. She might have a boyfriend. Stay friendly and get to know her.