Why are blowjobs pleasurable for females?

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1. Well, my Gf says she loves it bc of the smell, taste and consistency. But it might be diffrent for other woman

2. I can’t relate to this. I don’t fine sucking dick particularly pleasurable.

3. Validation that I’m good at it, especially if they moan and writhe. I feel like the owner of a special skill.

4. 1. There are men who refuse to go down on a women.
   2. There are men who do it only to satisfy their partner.
   3. There are men who do it because it gets them off.

   It’s probably the same thing for women.

   Either you hate it… Do it to please your partner… Or you love giving it because you think its hot.

   And usually, those who fall into #3, are typically the best at the task.

   If you love going down on a women, you like it because you enjoy being in control. You love the taste, you love making her melt, you love being sexy and seductive…

   I assume its the same thing for the women who enjoy it.

5. For me it’s the power dynamic! I love to know I am pleasing my partner

6. when you really love someone, or you’re extremely attracted to someone, you learn to get pleasure out of giving to your partner. so then giving a blowjob, we’re giving oral sex becomes no different than giving your partner a massage or giving them a back scratching or something like that.

   I mean when I’m figuring my girlfriend, I’m not getting any sexual stimulation from it but I am getting a lot of emotional gratification out of watching her come on my fingers.

7. the sensation of the dick in my mouth is so hot for me. just knowing I have someone’s penis inside my mouth is a big turn on. it’s nasty but intimate. same with them cumming in my mouth.

   the validation of doing a good job is always nice too 🥰

8. There’s something so nasty about it, I just love it. The feeling of having my mouth used by my partner. Delicious. The idea that I would prioritize his penis over air while sucking him 🥵🥵 he inspires that in me and it’s so intimate.

9. For me, it’s the power dynamic control of my man’s junk

10. Its my fave! Having control of the most prized part of their bodies. Knowing that i can tease him by slowing down, licking or taking it deep and hearing the way it feels to him by his moaning…you get it. I crave them…my mouth waters.

11. I love turning on my partner. It’s intimate and it feels good in my mouth. It’s beyond hot to know I caused my partner to climax. It’s erotic and hot. Maybe it’s just a “if you like it, you like it.” Idk why anyone doesn’t love it.

12. I love giving my boyfriend blowjobs. I think it’s really hot feeling him get harder and also knowing I’m making him feel good. He also sounds really sexy when he moans so it’s a huge turn on for me as well. In terms of sperm in my mouth, it doesn’t really do much for me. I mostly will swallow his cum because I know he likes it, it doesn’t actually do anything for me.

13. Do you go down on your girlfriend? Do you find eating pussy is pleasurable?

    I do! I love it because I love giving pleasure. I associate the taste and smells as something very pleasurable because I know how much my wife (and girlfriends many decades ago) enjoy it and giving them such pleasure is pleasurable to me.

    I imagine it’s the same thing for girls who enjoy giving BJ’s.

14. At the very least, for a female giving a guy a blowjob, it is deferred/delayed pleasure because she knows that it is likely to get her, gifts, dinners, flowers, jewelry. attention and commitment etc.

15. The same reason guys like playing with boobs, it’s fun. As a bi man I love sucking, it’s the best.

16. Power. He is at your mercy. Heh heh heh.

17. Because I live to please, lol. Nothing turns me on more than my husband. I can have an Orgasm just from sucking him off. The sounds, the way he squirms, the hitches in his breathing… God.

    I also have a huge oral fixation. I love the sensation of things in my mouth.

18. I genuinely enjoy the feeling of having a penis pushed into my mouth and throat. The feeling of having my throat stretched. But more than that, I have a bit of a degradation kink. I get off on being a slut. Being used like a slut. And really rough face fucking is my favorite way to feel like I’m being a good slut for the men I’m with. I love being called names, forced gagging, being spit on…the whole nine. Giving head on my knees literally puts me in a position where I am beneathe them and I can be very easily controlled and dominated.