I get nervous anytime I try anything w my fwb
I have a fwb thing starting up with my friend and we’ve like made out and we cuddle and like left marks on each other but anytime I try to hype myself mentally to finally fuck her or give her head at least I get nervous cause I don’t have any experience doing that and I can feel she’s getting frustrated cause it looks like I’m just teasing her in purpose but I’m not. For reference we are both girls and she’s more submissive than me but I just don’t know how to start and she’s got a lot more experience and I panicked and lied and said i did too.
Like she’s been the first person I’ve ever made out with while she’s slept with so many different girls and boys. I also don’t even know how to kiss with tongue and I don’t know whether she keeps trying or not cause I’ve never done it. How do I give her a good time with me without being nervous like I’ve researched and stuff but I’m so nervous and lost and I think she thinks I just don’t want to.
And I can’t just open up and tell her the truth now cause its been too long and I know she would get mad at me and even despite being kind of fwb she’s still my friend and I care for her so I don’t want to annoy her and frustrate her. Like how do i even start to get into fucking her or giving her head at least like I’m so lost someone pls help
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“So…eh, I freeze up because this is about as far as my experience goes. I need some reassurance that you are going to have patience with me as I learn.”
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“what do you want me to learn first?”
Sounds like she’s already mad, so you’re a little late on that one.
You’ll be amazed at how liberating and burden relieving telling her the truth will be. It will also help her understand you and realize you are not teasing.
It will be awkward at first, but that is the path to better sex and getting over this.
or you can make up more shit which is just going to cause more anxiety,.
think of telling her the truth as short term “pain” for long term relief. And if she doesn’t want to continue then so be it.
it’s always best to be yourself and not try to be something you are not, at least you’ll get rejected or accepted for the right reasons.
Time to do some growing up, young lady.