Fellow girls, do you need to feel sexy to blow your partner off?

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1. I do not need to feel sexy to suck him off no. Im happy to be put on my knees and facefucked even if im in the middle of house chores or something especially not sexy.

2. I think you’re the clear winner of this debate. She has a deadbedroom for obvious reasons. I will fuck or lick anytime my partner wants out of total enthusiasm and enjoyment for her. I couldnt stand being with someone like her. Sometimes you fuck, suck, lick or tug just because you can. Often when not in the mood it makes your day much better.

3. From a guy’s perspective…there is nothing sexier than when my wife is on her knees with my cock in her mouth. Doesn’t matter how her hair looks, or if she has makeup on or is wearing lingerie or sweat pants, once I see her take my cock in her mouth, it’s sexy. So I think if your friend needs to feel sexy to blow him, she should just blow him lol

4. As a guy I am always down to suck my partners clit anytime she sees fit.. I don’t expect but certainly appreciate the random BJs when they come.

5. MMM. Well not doubting the docile partner for ever after…….for a lot of guys that would be heaven on earth.

   Nothing makes a guy feel more wanted and desired. But a bit out of porno land.

   Surely very one sided???

   XXXXX

6. I don’t need to feel sexy to give oral to my partner – I enjoy it and am enthusiastic about it but there are just times where I just don’t want to do it and that’s normal and shouldn’t lead to any arguments with anyone. Friend and their spouse needs to communicate with each other and figure out what works for them to get each other to feeling sexy with one another & having fun again.

7. A big reason my SO is freeuse is she “always wants my balls empty”. Her words. My marriage was a dead bedroom situation. And it ended up why I divorced her. I’m with you OP. Keeping partner satisfied goes a long way and pays many dividends

8. I don’t need to feel any type of way. I will do it whenever, wherever he wants lol. But I always end up feeling pretty sexy regardless!

9. She’s the one with a dead bedroom. Not you. She’s losing.

10. I never understood this I would worship any part of my partners body at a moments notice.

    I mean, never in my life have a had that back…

11. It doesn’t matter how I’m feeling, I will suck his dick. It actually makes me happier feeling his cum in my mouth or all over my face. It’s a reward for being a good girl and I’m happy I do it.

12. Humble brag

13. It kind of depends. Do you know if this feeling of unsexiness from her side is coming from anywhere, e.g., a criticism of her body or her attractiveness that she’s heard? Is it all internal?

    That said, I’m surprised to hear this became a heated argument between a pair of friends.

14. As in you’re not in a sexual mood, no kissing or foreplay, you just get down on your knees in the middle of the day when he asks for it regardless of if you’re thinking or feeling sexual?

    Do you then start to feel sexual during the act or it’s a completely sex-less act to you that you’re doing for the other person’s pleasure?

    If you’re not feeling sexy or sexual, do you still find his dick attractive? It’s always attractive to you? Or you just view it as an ‘easy’ low maintenance way to keep him happy and you therefore don’t care if you feel sexual at the time, just do it for him?

    Or are you high libido and just ALWAYS in the mood?

    So many questions from a fellow woman, haha.

15. I feel like you’re just here to brag or something. Not because you actually care about your friend. Pathetic behavior honestly.

16. My wife loves to go down, but she does want some make out time before to get her in the mood. Seems pretty reasonable to me, and works for me too. Sounds like in this dispute it’s your friend’s husband who has the problem, Who doesn’t want to make out with their wife?

17. I’m always down to suck !