It seems that most profiles are those of women who want to travel, have new experiences, party etc. So where are all the boring, introverted, homely women that want to stay at home and chill?

Because of my introverted personality, I’m looking for that kind of women. Maybe because they are in high demand they’ve already been all snapped up?

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  3. If you want to attract them, start by not calling them boring. It’s not a nice thing to be called.

  4. I know, not helpful at all, but I wouldn’t use the word boring here, or at least I hope you aren’t actually looking for someone you consider boring. At least from my view I *would* consider like most women on Dating Apps as rather boring, but that’s more because for me liking to travel, going to the gym or excessive drinking aren’t particulalry interesting personality traits. Plus maybe a bit of envy for the travel thing, but that’s besides the point.

    On how to find a more introverted/not so outgoing woman, I have no idea, but let me know if you reach some revelation.

  6. I’m at home playing minecraft as a 26F ¯_(ツ)_/¯ Doing online school. Working.

    I hate the online dating thing with a passion. I don’t like feeling like a product. The few men I talked to were so very angry and honestly I don’t blame them. The environment was just awful for everyone it seemed. I also don’t like feeling pressured into things. People felt very impatient.

    I’d rather just find someone in person if I can. I don’t think I’d even resort to online dating if I were desperate. I think I’d rather be alone than have to wade through the terror and agony that is online dating.

  7. Homely in USA is unattractive not wants to be at home. I was very confused by your post lol.

    Edit to add: the definition on google for North America – Homely means unattractive.

  8. Most introverted, homebody women I know don’t use apps. It’s just not their thing.

    They’d probably find it too overwhelming.

    They might use social media and other online methods to talk to people and make friends but it’s rarely dating apps

  9. Not on the apps. Used them once and the rewards did not outweigh the negative experience I had with social media dating.

  10. I’m a boring, homely woman. Lol. I go to work, gym, run errands and come home. I’m on dating apps but I don’t swipe right on a lot of people.

    Your best bet is to find me at the gym or at the supermarket. Depending on your interests, maybe find them at DIY/furniture/book stores. Cookware section of departmental stores is a good choice too. But these days, most of us buy everything online. 🤣

  13. I’m introverted not homely. However I do like to stay home but also travel. I’m a good mix of enjoying going to a great fancy restaurant or the other night going with my date to Buffalo wild Wings and then a movie. My best belief as long as the company is great doesn’t matter what you do.

  14. Aren’t you simply inferring too much from their pictures? People take pictures when they’re partying and when they’re on vacation, not when they’re at home bingeing Netflix, so the former is what you get to see on their pictures in dating profiles.

  15. I’d assume those kinds of women, which you’re looking for, aren’t on dating apps 🤷‍♀️ Dating apps/sites are terrible. Never believed in using them.

  17. I’m a matchmaker and a lot of my clients are more low-key! Where are you located? Maybe I have someone for you 🙂

  18. I’m a mix of both… Travel is my big passion, I like going to bars, but I also like staying at home, being with my cat…

  21. We’re hiding at home. The only way to find us is to meet people at work, hang out with them, meet their friends, and network yourself into a larger social circle to hunt down hidden introverts.

  24. I’m a home body. I’m not homely nor boring. I just don’t like all the crazy things that the men on dating apps like. I enjoy going out to movies, plays, etc. But I absolutely love being home and cuddling with my man. I’m a widow now.

  25. They get married (on in an LTR) young and stay that way and get snatched up fast if they get divorced or break up.

  26. I’m not on apps or even social media.. im at home, working , or out enjoying nature or just living my solitary life minding my business 😌
    You might just have to be observant and catch “us” in the wild..

  27. While I don’t think I’m homely I am both highly partnered. introverted homebody that likes to travel, have new experiences and doesn’t party. Soo, yes?

  28. We’re just here at home 🥹 hahaha. I, for one is too shy to interact with guys 🥲 my confidence level could not handle it at all 😂 but yeah I’ve always wanted to be in a relationship and experience what it’s like to love and be loved 🥹💗

  29. i dont get it. For a lot of introverted and homely men dating apps feel like only way to actually have a date in their life but introverted women do not feel the same way??

  30. *We’re not on the apps.* I’d be offended to be on it, let alone participate in it. I feel like I’m shopping for a person based on looks, which I wouldn’t want someone to do for me so I’m not going to do it to them.

    We’re in the woods, at local crafts fair, and in our own backyards. Well, me at least.

  32. Not on the apps. I’m super introverted, homebody and apps stress me the fuck out. I wish there was an app just for people like us.

  34. Here on Reddit 🙂 we have our cozy socks on and fireplace on by noon 🥰🫖☕️ (Single, 40F) hahahhahaha

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