33[M]Netherlands “Confidence is key”

Greetings!
I know this might be one of many posts out there. I’m a guy from the Netherlands on a long quest for a genuine connection that could grow into a relationship. So far, it’s been elusive. People often perceive me as cuddly (hair/beard) and I struggle with self-esteem. Despite the saying “self-confidence is key,” I seem to fall short. I’m genuine, and I hope that comes across, but what am I doing wrong? I find it incredibly challenging to navigate busy situations, and I take medication for anxiety. I’ve tried almost every dating app, but no luck.

All I want is to find my companion, my soulmate. A bit about me: I’m a 33-year-old male, standing at 1.79 meters, with a bit of a dad bod. I have dark blond hair and grey-blue eyes. I’m shy, honest, a realist, and I’ve had my share of experiences, like most people. Long-distance relationships aren’t my forte, and I’m not on many social apps. However, I’m passionate about technology, hiking, road trips, 3D printing, and diving into the worlds of “The Witcher” and Grimdark. I commute to work as a civil servant on an electric scooter. I derive joy from helping others, even if it costs me a bit personally.

I hope you’re doing okay. Please feel free to ask me anything. I’m just hoping I won’t remain alone. Thanks for reading, and if you have any constructive criticism, I’m open to it. Have a wonderful day!

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