I’m a 22 year old guy and I suck at compliments. My boyfriend is trans and constantly praises me in the bedroom. see I used to be a whore when I was younger to cover up some trauma. I absolutely loved getting girls off, so I learned a thing or 2. But I have low confidence these days because of a toxic ex. I have trouble accepting compliments. But my bf was praising me for knowing where everything is he said I’ve been the only guy to ever find his g spot usually only girls know. I decided to ask a friend about it. He’s my boyfriend so he has to flatter me. but my friend can be honest with me. Btw I got permission to talk about this type of thing with her. But my friend said no guy has ever found hers either. So I wanna ask strangers, is it really that rare or have they just had sucky lovers?
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They usually need to be shown where it is or what to feel for. I don’t know if it’s rare but more guys should learn!
It’s not always in the same spot. On one of my exes, it right at the front edge.
I think a lot of men don’t even know it exists tbh, but yes, like the other comments, it’s all about guidance and more people should learn!