My best friend (25f) and I (26f) have always wanted to have a threesome together with a man. We are both bi and both have a good amount of experience with men, and some experience with women. Her and I have hooked up once years ago but our time was cut short because we got caught by her boyfriend at the time, which is a whole other story.🤣 We’re going on a trip in a couple months and are hoping to pursue that dream then. I’m open to any advice or hearing your experiences in hopes to give me some confidence!
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I am assuming that this time around you are not cheating on your boyfriends.
Other than that, i think you are good to go because it often very hard to find a female third but not the other way round.
The hardest part about the male third is having too many to choose from to the extent of leaving you paralyzed to make any choice at all.
Who will be the male “talent”? Do you plan to pick someone up on the trip? If so, random guys are very very hit and miss for a threesome, heavily skewed towards a miss.
On top of the issues with having a stranger that has no idea of the dynamics and possibly no experience with 2 girls, they often overestimate their stamina/ are too nervous.
More often than not it ends either quickly or with a G/G.
Your best bet is someone you know, who knows what to expect. Very important: Spend time to discuss each other’s expectations and boundaries (!) Threesome dynamics can go wrong very very easily, with feelings getting hurt.
Bring toys regardless. Alternatively, book a male escort that has some experience.
Or just hope you get lucky and find a guy that knows what they are doing 😋
Making sure everyone feels involved throughout
Having an idea of what threesome positions you want to try
Toys add to keeping everyone involved but since you’re both bi could just add to the fun.
Find a guy that’s gonna want to put your pleasures before his, avoid someone who’s gonna blast in 5 mins and then act like he can’t still participate.
Honestly, as someone already mentioned, your best bet is a male escort. Sorry, I am booked solid…
JK, I wouldn’t last 5 mins…
Most importantly, buy a bunch of condoms, including different sizes.
It seems like you and her will be hooking up with some dude on a trip, which basically means you’re being irresponsible. You won’t be able to check his STD status on such a whim like that. So you’re going to roll the dice on getting a disease.
So yeah, best idea is to at least get some protection. Enjoy the dream
I mean since you’re both girls it’s pretty hard for the guy not to have a good time. Especially considering he’s presumably gonna be a random dude who gets approached by two girls for a threesome. That’s literally the dream.
As far as you two, keep it simple. Just fuck. Since no one is in a relationship it’s way simpler than usual with these posts.
Really the only thing I can say is make sure everyone gets to cum.
As far as positions go, I’m gonna copy paste part of a response to someone else on this sub asking a similar question. Just keep in mind this girl was married so some of the stuff about relationship boundaries won’t apply to you. The positions are still awesome.
“For example your husband penetrates you doggy style, you give oral to the girl. Or girl gives you oral, you give your husband oral, he gives her oral (if you decide you are okay with this). It’s a triangle basically.
Another good one is you basically get in the missionary position with the other girl and stimulate each others clitorises, either with fingers, two sex toys, one sex toy ect. You want to be at the edge of the bed for this one because your husbands role is fuck you while you are making out/ pleasuring each other. Think the normal position where he is standing and you lie at the edge of the bed except there is a girl on top of you (or you’re on top and it’s more like doggy, whichever works).
This one slightly breaks the rule but it’s *fucking hot* if everyone is okay with it. Basically you and your husband go at it and the girl lies next to you on the bed and masturbates. Seeing a girl touch herself while you fuck each other is absolutely amazing. You can also lie next to the girl, both on your back, overlap one of your legs over hers (so like your left leg is like in between her legs if that makes sense) and you can *both* masturbate while he watches. This one was awesome for me because girls masturbating is the hottest thing on earth for me, your husband may feel differently.
If the girl is *really* into this kind of stuff you can add a setup where (assuming she is okay with a little bondage) tie one wrist to the bedpost and the other to a string/rope whatever which you then loop around the bedpost or something else solid and then hold the other end of. If you did it correctly when you pull it towards you the girls arm should go up (or really anywhere she can’t touch herself), then you and him go at it and basically edge her with herself. When she is getting close to cumming rip her own hand away. Then when you finally feel like letting her cum hand her a vibrator and let her make herself finish. Obviously only do this if the girl is into the idea of watching and is into orgasm denial and stuff.”