Recently got into an argument with my girlfriend about if picking somebody up constituted as flirting. I’ve picked up people in the past and carried them around without meaning to flirt, but after a long conversation my gf she convinced me I was probably wrong.
As you can imagine, one thing lead to another and the conversation ended up with my gf expressing how much it turns her on to be picked up and thrown around while making out, having sex, etc. Strength and size won’t really be an issue (I’m about a foot taller and am confident I’m strong enough to pick her up), but I’m super confused as to how to do this. She doesn’t like rough sex, so I feel like I have to tread a super thin line on this one and I have absolutely no idea what she means by being “picked up” or “thrown around.” In my head, trying to lift her while we’re intimate seems like it would be 1) awkward, 2) break the moment/mood, and 3) be rough on her which she’s told me she isn’t in to.
Tl;Dr How do I successfully “pick up and throw around” my significant other during sexy-time??
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Lift her hips in the air
If she doesn’t like it rough throw her around in a playful manner while doing the deed and changing positions be dominant use a bit of force to adjust her, see if she likes that. When kissing lift her hips (side, behind) both could work. Or if I wanna be a romantic and she is turned on by that. Carry her to bed when you know it’s gonna happen. That for sure will get her going.