I am 21M virgin and have never been in a relationship but have been talking and going out with a girl (21F) also virgin. I had a crush on for years I think we may finally do it soon and she also have been giving me hints about it. So I was wondering how to give her an orgasm with fingering. I watched some vids online but they were too rough and I don’t think she will like it either.
Any advice ? Thanks in advance
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You have to ask her how she does it herself, and try to imitate her moves. Massaging the clit with circles is very common, keeping the hood over the clit. Make sure she is wet and ready-making out a lot can help prepare her.
Every woman has her own technique, so you have to try to read her body language. And ask her if it feels good.
It has to be wet. If you can get some water-based lube beforehand so that you’re ready that would be best in case she’s dry. Normally you would do oral to start but it may be too soon for that. Start with the outside and work up to one finger and ask her if she likes what you’re doing. The important thing is that you communicate. Most women want you to make them feel safe. Telling her what you’re doing or going to do is a very good habit to get in.