I met a guy online and he was really nice. He made it clear to me that he wanted to be more than friends at the very beginning and I made it clear to him that if he’s just playing around, I don’t want anything to do with him. But he was consistent – he updates me all the time, he talks to me whenever he can, he talks about his life and his family, he offered to drive me around when I go visit my home country next year (which where he lives; I live in a diff. country now), he made plans for us, he talked about the future, he was honest… HE’S JUST REALLY NICE, you know? And the funny thing is he’s not even my type at first but then him doing all that made me like him, so we had something. But then around third week of talking to him, he started getting busy, I tried to understand him of course. But I know there was something wrong so I confronted him. He said he’s not sure why he feels different. Because all of a sudden, he likes to enjoy his own company – just like he used to before, he said. That’s why he’s not talking to me that much out of nowhere, because he got too lazy to reply. Because he feels like it’s better when he’s all on his own. Like… what?
IT BROKE ME.
He was so nice at first. Why did he act so different, all of a sudden? ☹️
He said to give him a week to think about his actions. I said no and ended things with him. But I wanted to work it out so bad that I messaged him a few days ago asking if he’s okay now and he said he needs more time… I just don’t understand. Where did it went wrong? We were okay… This is driving me insane that I can’t function… I know this seems not a big deal, but it is to me. I just don’t get it. Why did he act different suddenly? Should I wait for him? What should I do?