How would you react if a girl slaps you in a new relationship

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1. Red flag, cut my losses and move one. Someone who resorts to physical violence easily is not someone I want to be around.

2. Red flag. Leave asap.

3. Instant exit.

4. Run and don’t look back. I sometimes get a bad day at work but I don’t slap my girlfriend. I just hug her standing up or at the couch and cuddle her waste. She does the same thing too or sometimes she rest while I bake her something. Also I jump scare people a lot because they can’t hear a 250+ pound man walking. I will just crack a joke afterwards.

5. She would only do it once, & I’d be outta there.

6. Happy break up.

7. That would be the end of the relationship. Slapping someone because you had a bad day or got irritated is unacceptable regardless of the gender to the slapper and slappee. If a guy slapped his girlfriend for the same reasons, that would (rightfully) be a criminal charge.

8. During sex, I might be into it. 😏

9. Get turned on

10. No.

11. A jumpscare slap & a bad day so take it on someone else slap are two wildly DIFFERENT slaps.

12. I’d leave. This is the beginning of a relationship where people are at their best behavior. If this is her best then she is going to be a GF from hell.

    Switch the genders would you tell a girl to stay?

13. Across the face? I’d DL tinder right there and then and start walking.

    Playfully on the shoulder in a way that wouldn’t kill a mosquito? Allow but any harder then she needs to know that it has to stop. All contingent on how the actual relationship is though

14. It would feel a lot like consent

15. Instant break up

    Open a notes on my phone and write down when, where and what happened in case things get legal.

16. I’ll slap her ass

17. Instant break up

18. Don’t be and abuser, and don’t put up with one. If you stay in a relationship like that, it might normalize such actions…

19. I would turn around, walk away, and never look back. Over time you teach people how to treat you, and be careful with the lesson you teach here.

20. I remember reading an old comment of a guy saying he endured a girls abuse for a couple of months. She slapped, punched and kicked him or something. Then one day, the guy snapped and started to beat her up. She never laid a finger on him after.

    Edit: My explanation is kinda inaccurate coz its an old comment and I dont remember it in too much detail

21. Red flag. Ditch the hoe and run. A playful slap in response to a jump scare is one thing, a slap just because she’s having a bitch day, that’s abuse. Ain’t no man on the face of the planet got time for that kind of bullshit.

22. If you turn that situation around it sounds vile: A female scares a male and he slaps her in response? Nope. If it’s abuse one way then it’s abuse the other.

23. Most female serial killers abuse their male spouses before going full black widow. You should run, nobody deserves a slap unless it’s self defense! Best!

24. Jumpscare reaction?
    That’s normal fight or flight. I’d rather be with someone whose reaction is to defend themselves in an emergency.

    Violence because you had a bad day and don’t feel like being touched? So long as they hadn’t already told you not to touch them, constituting a boundary.
    That’s just plain old assault, yo.

25. Her slapping after a jumpscare is a normal reaction for a lot of people, it’s like “auto-defense mode”. Now, slapping because she’s irritated is a completely different world and while *I* wouldn’t put my hands on a woman, I’m not the only person in the world with hands.

26. I identify as Chris Brown