Me and my boyfriend, both virgins, tried having sex for many days but it would hurt every time he tried to penetrate so we stopped. When he was finally able to penetrate, the pain was too much to bear so we didnt continue after this initial thrust. It felt like a knife ripped me open.
I didnt start bleeding for a minute after, but when I did, it looked like someone has been murdered in the room lol. I bled for half an hour straight and had very light spotting for 3 days. The intense pain was gone in a few hours and the dull ache also stopped after a day. But I’m scared of trying again. I mean i want to, but i can’t. we start making out but as soon as his dick touches me down there, the flashbacks of this experience hit me, and i become dry down there.
I need help cz this has made sex impossible for us now.
Also, did anybody else have a similar experience of a lot of bleeding that started after a minute or so?
(We try penetration after hours long foreplay everytime, he gets me off atleast once before it, use lube too, he’s towards the average size, and the pain wasn’t too deep inside the vagina)
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You’re virgins… yes thats normal. Ideal? Probably not. It’s probably nothing but go to the doctor if you really feel otherwise.