As a precursor, I have a penis, and whenever I tried to look for content for people who related, but it was all centered around people who have different sexual anatomy. I realized that when I first had a sexual encounter with someone last year I noticed that nothing anyone could do could bring me over the edge. I’ve always been able to make my partner finish, but I feel like it always takes sooooo much time for me to finish, or I just never do. Even when I do, I HAVE to use my hand, and it always takes immense focus for me to do so as well. It sucks. I wish I could feel good as my partner in bed and have it come naturally like it does for them. I know there’s a huge mental block for me and sometimes I even get distracted due to how long it takes. Any advice?