My husband died last year. We had 3 children together(16,19,21) and had just celebrated our 25th wedding anniversary and we’d been together for 30 years. We loved each other, but our marriage wasn’t perfect. We were on the brink of divorce at one point. Then things got better…suspiciously too good. So after a while, I did some digging. He was cheating on me, but never actually told me. But I knew that he knew that I was aware.
I confirmed it 7 years ago, but it’s something I speculated for a long time. I never confronted him about it, ever. And if I had the chance to do it all over again, I would go the exact same route I did. I don’t regret any step I took. After he died I found his journals and was able to retrieve his AP’s address. I sent her something of his, and as I went to check the mail yesterday, I found a letter from her. She didn’t outright say “I was with your husband for the last couple of years”, but she did ask to meet.
I’ve been wondering all morning what she could possibly want to meet for. To explain herself, to apologize? Either way, I’m at peace with everything. Part of me wants to just ignore her but the other part of me is really curious. Do I ignore it or go?