People have stopped asking me what I want, things just plan out around me and I go along with them. Usually I hate to be the person who asks for something because I don’t want to inconvenience anyone so I go along with the flow, and generally don’t mind it since I’m typically not the planner.
Often times people will even forget I was present at an occasion with them until I remind them by recalling an event. It makes me feel like I’m just there like a fly on the wall and no one notices or cares I’m there. I’m not a loud person or conversative and don’t demand attention but it would feel good to be noticed and remembered.