A friend of mine will txt me and talk to me via txt messaging when she’s going through hard times. When her life is going well and smooth, I rarely hear from her. I’ve been there for her when she was struggling to get married, having marriage issues, going through infertility, and now health issues. She lives out of state and visits her family but hasn’t attempted to meet up with me once. She has met with her “best friend” a few times. Didn’t tell her bff about her infertility but I was on the phone with her for hours and months trying to console her and give her words of encouragement. However, I do want to say that when I was going through hard times, she was there for me via txt messaging. What bothers me is when things go well for her, I don’t hear from her. I’ve gotten to the point where whenever she sends me a txt I know something is up. It’s taking a toll on my mental health because her stories worries me. I don’t know how to tell her to stop messaging me and using me as her personal therapist. She never invited me to her wedding. Invited her bff. She attempted to invite me to her house once and then uninvited me. How do I handle this situation. Currently, she’s going through a major health crisis and has reached out to me again. Her health issue has brought out my own anxiety about my health issues and I can’t sleep. Not sure how to handle this friend.