I am new to dating and I have been heard this advice before and I was wondering if it is a recipe for disaster or not
“*If you and your partner have different capacities for giving love you shouldn’t try to match each other but rather accept and appreciate what their abilities for love they have*”
Basically what it means is that it is inevitable that one of the two people dating will love the other more. It just isn’t realistic to expect the capacity to give love being the same. And if you realize your partner is giving more love than you will ever be able to and you try to match them you will fall short and get burnt out and emotionally numb. But if it’s the other way around and you give more love than your partner and you start to give less to try to match them it causes you to become resentfull.
You should both be mature enough to accept that everyone has different levels of empathy and care and we should accept and appreciate each other’s ability to love even if it is different, more or less than yours.
What do you all think about this?