Last night I had sex for the first time with my lover (i am 20 f he is 25 m). I get a bad aching feeling in my vagina and an intense urge to pee. I find the urge to pee very annoying so we stop and then I go pee in the toilet which blows. Like a pain of 7 on the scales of pain aching.
I’m a very aroused, horny female but then I don’t get to the intense pleasures or orgasms. I’ll be very wet and wanting to get it on and put the penis inside me. But, I won’t feel the pleasures barely at all. I’m starting to get concerned I’m not sensitive down there. He tried oral and it didn’t orgasm me but I did get little bits of pleasure. He is very sweet and is trying his best to pleasure me. We have been talking and trying to find me ways to get there, but I don’t even know where I like it now or how to get myself there since I don’t really masturbate. When I did masturbate in the past I didn’t orgasm but felt satisfied. The only time where I think I orgasm a bit is when I have dirty thoughts about pleasuring him.
Either way, I learned from talking to three people now that yes it hurts but it will go away as you do it more and practice. And, as the pain goes away you will start feeling the intense pleasures.
Has anyone experienced this and when did it start becoming very enjoyable? This is very strange to me.
He also did a bit of foreplay which was a little bit arousing and pleasurable. Also ima go get myself a gynecologist.