Iv (38f) have been with my partner (36m) for 3 months now. I can honestly say it’s the most amazing sex I have ever had, and he has said the same. He is extremely attentive and pays so much attention to me when in the throws of passion to make sure I orgasm every time we have sex. However, he does this to the detriment of his own orgasms. Now I know he just wants to please me, which I absolutely love. But it’s starting to make me feel a bit selfish, as I am also a giver and love to see him climax. There have been a few times where I can feel he is very close, but he manages to stop himself either because it is too soon or he can feel like I am close to orgasm and wants to get me there. We’ve talked many times about it, Iv told him not to wait for me, and asked what I can do to help him get there. His response is always, just seeing and feeling me orgasm is enough for him and he doesn’t need to cum everytime. Sometimes I can finish him off with a mixture of oral and hand jobs, but again, he won’t always get there. Are there any other men out there that are similar to this? If so is there anything that works for you that I could try to help him get there?